Most misinterpret calm as indifference. In reality, those who seem unaffected have transferred their judgment to their own inner voice, typically during their thirties.
By 30-40, many move from performing for others to evaluating based on personal values. This transition is subtle, yet profound, leading to more genuine responses and behaviors.
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The shift isn't about indifference but developing internal authority. They hear criticism but decide their own path, acting based on self-respect rather than external approval.
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Maintaining this internal authority requires continuous self-reflection and physical practices like staying active and engaged. True internal evaluation reduces the suffering from societal judgments, enabling a quieter, more authentic existence.