A viral video of a mom juggling groceries while her husband stares at his phone sparked thousands of comments urging divorce. The clip, meant to be humorous, highlights a growing concern: social media is distorting how we perceive our relationships.
Associate Professor Patrick Williams of NTU explains that algorithms prioritize content we engage with, creating a feedback loop of negativity. A brief moment of frustration with a partner can lead to a feed filled with 'toxic' red flags, making normal ups and downs feel like systemic abuse.
Clinical psychologist Mahima Didwania warns that 10-second reels can't capture the complexity of real life. When people apply heavy labels like 'narcissist' or 'gaslighter' without professional context, they may abandon relationships prematurely.
Psychotherapist Dr. Fauziah Shah notes that taking advice from influencers-who know nothing of your personal history-can lead to isolation. She emphasizes that working through conflict builds resilience, while cutting ties often leaves people more broken.
The original poster of the viral video pinned her own comment: "You don't know me and only saw 10 seconds of my life. My husband can be an idiot, but I love him. Stop asking strangers to get divorced and go hug the people you love."
